Are you thinking how it is possible? Or it is not possible to become a good lover by education. Then I say to simply remove this thinking from your mind. Because education is such a thing that can do anything, or can happen anything in the world. So it is not a big matter that education can’t do.
At first, you have to know what love is then I tell you how education is linked with it. I think love is a mixture of feelings, emotion, affection, belief and time. In the maximum time, it does not depend on one’s desire. Nature compel you to love. Like at the time of feelings for someone you see the nighty moon to spread out its rays more smoothly than other time, the voice of cuckoo more sweet than other time, whims to wet in rain, the weather is so much romantic. Such feelings enhanced your love in your face.
You can buy sex partner, marriage partner, but you can never buy love. It is ‘not for sale’. It is inherently free. Everyone try to hold on his/her love till to death. But someone can’t. Or someone wants to break their relation for misunderstanding or due to some personal reason. But ever you think how education is involved with love. I will show you how education stays in hiding behind all of this.
Let’s start. I am going to present the main points that tell you the relation between love and education.
1) Class topper: Do you notice that the 1st one in your class is in a relation with another suitable one. But ever you think why? It is unknown to all except god. It may be a reflection of nature. But research says two constant companions surely fall in love with each other in a day. Somehow, it may not depend on the merit of those. But you cannot deny that other in the classes are not interested in the 1st one.
2) Transfer of knowledge: We know, education is the only treasure that increases on sharing. Here transfer of knowledge means sharing of knowledge. Education is not transferable, it can only be shared. In a relationship both the person share their personal opinion with each other. And when you notice that the thinking of your match with another, then you are suitable for each other. That is one important key point in love. Otherwise, may cause a Break-up.
3) Patience in a hardy mood: Patience means to forget about thorn by looking on rose, to forget about night by looking on a softened dawn. And this is possible by love only. If you are an angry person and cannot control yourself in a hardy mood, then love helps you to calm and to stay at patience.
4) Spend time reading books: Sometimes you may feel bored. And you may not get the company of your lover. I know it is a very worst time that you cannot control yourself to show him/her anger. The question may arise about ‘Time’. Time carry an important factor in a relation. That may result in a long quarrel or break up. So, I suggest you not too angry and pass this time by reading books. But why book? Because a book is the only thing that has no enemy and can help until the last day of life.
5) Being a small writer: I think writing is a passion to a writer. It also signifies one’s creativity. A person who falls in love but doesn’t touch his/her diary is not possible. Of course, this is a good impact on love. Write a poem or short story in your free times. And of course, you don’t feel bored when you stay alone.
6) Keep yourself busy in studying: Are you in a complicated situation? Or commit an extreme quarrel with your lover. Cannot concentrate on anything? Don’t worry. The solution is the only book and time. Spending more time with books. It may be a book of the poem, story or novel. You won’t understand when the time has gone. And then you can surely send a patch up request.
7) Romanticism by literature: One always want a lover who is romantic as well as passionate. And I think this romanticism can only be increased by literature. But for that, you have to interest in literature. There are so many writers who wrote books on lover-ism. Or has a distress love story in his description. You can read this type of novels also.
In Bengali, there are so much author like Sunil Gangopadhyay, Purnendu Porti, Joy Goswami etc. who wrote so many love poems. You can read ‘Kalbela’ by samoresh Majumdar. ‘Gora’, ‘Choker bali’, ‘Sesher kobita’, ‘Dui bon’, ‘Malancho’, ‘Char Adhaya’ by Rabindranath Tagore. In English you can read ‘Half girlfriend’, ‘Her last wish’, ‘you are the best wife’, ‘You’re trending in my dreams’ etc. All the books are so much pathetic.
8) Stand in life: Everyone can love, everyone can dream. But how much of them can hold on their relation up to marriage or how much can substantiate their dream? Childish is needed to love but maturity is needed to hold on/carry on the love. So, don’t flatter yourself in love, besides love keep in mind to establish yourself. Otherwise whole the world will lie to you.
I think now you can make the relation between love and education and understand my point of view. I think this article make you a good lover through education and can change your aggressive mind. At last wish you to be a good lover.